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Lockdown Behaviour - Shared screen with speaker view
Leila
17:52
hi I have a 22 months old and he is in nursary he is a great boy at nursary but at home he has tantrums coming out of no where he might playing and suddenly starts I am aware that I have been very stressed with work as I’m a key worker working at nhs but have Ben trying to control it at home so he doesn’t get the stressed what should I do to help him with tantrums? we have run out of ideas
Jane Bird
19:48
Hi all I'm new too!
Harithra
20:42
oh that makes total sense.. my twins repeat to get my attention
Leila
22:16
what you suggest to do with tantrums around sitting in car seat? I have tried to ignore it didn’t work the. bribery which I really don’t like to do and it work but what you advice to do
Dominic Morton
23:36
my 3 year old will refuse to talk when out and i can’t carry him as well as push baby in pram even with buggy board its too heavy as we live on a steep hill. how can i get him to walk without a tantrum? i find it hard to control his tantrums that result and end up having to pull him along, not nice
Ellen
23:43
Hi, I’m new too! My 27-month-old has become super shy since the start of lockdown last year. She’s really clingy with me and doesn’t want Daddy. She used to like nursery but now cries and won’t say a single word all day to anyone there, but is chatty as soon as we pick her up. It’s been months… help! Thanks
Harithra
25:36
my twins fight over the same toy even if they have 2 of it.. seem to get really upset and angry and just scream argh argh... breaking up and trying to calm doesn't seem to help. they don't stop and listen. just turn that to me. what can I try
Tikisha
28:55
My 2 year old 3 in April she literally does not go to bed and will make herself sick with crying if asked to go bed
Leila
31:03
ah that makes sense thanks I started sliding it before he get upset so is fine to do it that way thanks
iPhone
31:17
I know that baby shouldn’t be throwing tantrums yet, but my 10 months old baby is just curious about everything and loves to do/ touch anything like that are dangerous like biting on cables. when we stopped her. she would scream/ cry/ refuse to eat. apart from that she’s still waking up multiple times at night in night terror. Not sure if that makes her very tired all the time. She is also extremely clingy to me, ( still breastfeeding) and can’t be alone for more than 10 seconds. it’s really draining our energy.
Dominic Morton
31:39
my 3 year old will refuse to walk when out and i can’t carry him as well as push baby in pram even with buggy board its too heavy as we live on a steep hill. how can i get him to walk without a tantrum? i find it hard to control his tantrums that result and end up having to pull him along, not nice
Tikisha
31:47
How do you react to bad behaviour then like when they are doing something bad that needs to stop right away for example hitting
iPhone
32:42
my 10 month old baby also can’t understand us even if we tell her it’s wrong behaviour. she just threw tantrums and got frustrated.
Sonia
45:01
my 21 month old boy has started biting his hands or bites the corner of a table when he’s upset or angry when he doesn’t get his way. I don’t know how to stop him from reacting like this?
Charlotte
47:17
my 14 year old has good days and is listen and concentrating and really pick up on words and how to play with his toys. There are days / moments in the day where he will throw his toys and not listen. when we say no he then thinks it's a game. Is this something that I should be worried about? x
Vaishali & Aarya
48:09
any tips for babies born in lockdown as they move into toddlerhood?
Lucia
51:57
how to distinguish whether a toddler kids having tantrums because of their development or because atmosphere isn't great? many thanks for organising this, so needed! xx
Lucia
52:31
atmosphere at home, I meant 😊
Lucia
01:00:14
Is there any chance this recording can be shared with the attendees? many thanks
Claire Strydom
01:01:16
ditto is there a chance to get the recording
Syeda + zakariya 3yrs + yusuf 6m
01:04:15
my 3yr old...we had to use bribery to get things done and now it has become habit. how can we stop using bribes ? eg I will give you an apple if you brush your teeth etc
Jane Bird
01:08:37
We started toilet training my son when he was 3 at the start of the first lockdown. He is coming up 4 now and will still hold his wee as long as possible. Also he will only poo in his pull-up in bed. Both parents were working at home for several months Andy's didn't get the attention. He needed. I am now on maternity leave with a 6 month old. My bunch is that the toileting gives him the attention and control he craves. Do you have advice to move forward with this?
Jane Bird
01:09:24
And he not Andys! Apologies for typo!
Vaishali & Aarya
01:09:36
thank you so much, that was really useful!
Syeda + zakariya 3yrs + yusuf 6m
01:12:09
thank you! have a good day all!
Ellen
01:12:12
Thank you!
Leila
01:12:14
thank you so much was great session
Tikisha
01:12:18
Thank you
Sonia
01:12:28
thank you 😊👍🏼
Jane Bird
01:12:45
Thank you Olivia and katie
Helen Hopkins
01:13:11
thanks very much. so interesting