Rabbi Yuhanan How to Prepare Your Children for Marriage - Shared screen with speaker view
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That’s not true
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did hashem said its not good for adam to be alone because he needed to stretch his middot?
What is marriage going to do for these children, if people get married at a young age they often lead to divorces
Being married and having a family is not mutually exclusive with getting education and having something to contribute to society
This society and the new generation especially the girls are much smarter in getting an education first than getting married early than getting stuck in a marriage with no education and no getting out
You can be married and go to college at the same time just like you can be married and have a job (for both girls and boys)
That might be true but that is also hard it doesn’t work for others in terms of having kids and spouses giving up bc they have challenges
very good concept regarding learning a skill
I honestly learned all of this when I got married, came from a very religious family and was very rebellious and yes my mother encouraged me to learn wifely duties just wasn’t interested because the bukharian culture unfortunately are very sexist and stereotypical for male and female, I however will raise my kids opposite of what I was raised and won’t force religion or pressure, no offense rabbi its a person decision to grow just have parents be supportive and stop brainwashing and all will be good
how about having a higher education. I think it’s important to be stable and have a good career. it’s not easy when you get married and have kids and go to school. too much responsibility for these kids who are 18 years old.
What if you generally talk about it with your young kids, but they are scared and say that they don't want to or are scared to be a mommy. I know they will eventually change but I want them to be excited
no but you can finish at 22 or 23 and at least get bachelors to be on your feet a little. get married and continue your education.
I heard seminary program is very difficult because they are learning online major subjects and mornings seminary in class. it’s a lot of pressure because they try to squeeze too many classes in 2 years.
I wasted a lot of time in college too. a lot of classes are electives and are a waste of time.
Well yes people go to to TOURO no offense and get spoon fed compared to SUNY and CUNY colleges
he talking about seminars. They are the best invention for our kids nowadays.
true if you have positive marriage its amazing. with Hashems help our children will get married properly.
may hashem give us the wisdom to help our children get married at the right time with the right person
Great speech rabbi
amen and thank you for chizuk
Thank you for coming on and ur time and patience away from ur family