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Holding Difficult Conversations: Discussing Covid with Loving Mercy & Respect in our Communities and Families - Shared screen with speaker view
Mahabbah Young
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questions when helping someone with a conflict they are in
Mahabbah Young
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1. describe what the conflict is about
Mahabbah Young
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2. what would be your goals in resolving this conflict?
Mahabbah Young
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3. what might be their goals in this conflict?
Mahabbah Young
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4. what would be the worst outcome if the conflict doesn't get resolved?
Mahabbah Young
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5. share the perspective of the other party in the conflict
Nbokai@123
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I have told the same exact word by the father of my children
Nbokai@123
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Character assassination.
Mahabbah Young
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6. Do a deeper exploration of the feelings, needs, goals on each side of the conflict and look where there might be any shared needs/goals
Mahabbah Young
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7. what are some possible ways to achieve the best solution to this conflict?
Mahabbah Young
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You all can explore solutions even if the possibilities don't seem likely or plausible at this time
Mahabbah Young
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8. how can you translate these ideas into action steps?
Mahabbah Young
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what action steps could you commit to, including the when and how?
Mahabbah Young
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offer to check in with them at some point in the future to see how they are doing with the action steps that they committed to
Mahabbah Young
01:22:47
There's never nothing you can do when things are caught in separation. Always remember the power of prayer - hold them in your heart , and pray for them to heal from the pain that they felt.
Mahabbah Young
01:23:16
Sulha- reconciliation
Maryam Hand/Mercy Circle
01:36:22
For those who have not chosen to vaccinate, or if you know a beloved who feels isolated because of their choice not to vaccinate, you have my permission to put them in touch with me marhand@gmail.com
Zahra Lee- ANSAR COUNCIL
01:37:38
FYI ansarcouncil99@gmail.com
Mahabbah Young
01:38:12
link to the website: https://suficommunities.org/community-connections/our-communities/affiliate-groups/the-unity-project/
Mahabbah Young
01:38:44
Series of classes on creating a safe and inclusive space for conversations around COVID-19Classes will inshallah be held on Saturdays from 12-1:30 pm ET/9-10:30 am PTFeb 19 “Difficult conversations – Moving beyond the written word”March 5 “Need to be right - Getting out of dualistic thinking”March 19 “Listening”April 2 “Politeness (adab) and Disagreement”April 16 “Empathy - Connecting with the heart of the other”May 14 “Tools to facilitate Difficult Conversations”May 28 “Working with Anger - Your own and others’ ”
Mahabbah Young
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The suggested average donation for this 7 class series is $120.Approximately half of the payment collected goes to the teachers, a quarter to SSC, and a quarter to the poor. We are using an average suggested donation here because in our path (Sufism and Islam), the custom is for those who have more contribute more, and those who have less give less, to make sure the door is open for all, regardless of the ability to pay, inshaAllah. We need a minimum of 30 people registered, inshaAllah, to go forward.
Sukayna
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This program is such a beautiful example of several ministries in the
Sukayna
01:42:42
Tariqa to come together to bring forth a single offering. So grateful.
Mahabbah Young
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jaqdavies@gmail.com
Mahabbah Young
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theunityproject@suficommunities.org