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Caroline Duker
12:07
I have a 3 week old from Hertfordshire x
Kay Peat
15:58
Question for the end; I am at home full time with my 2 year old and able to be very responsive to her wants and needs. I feel like there is now an expectation she will get everything now and am wondering if I should be making her wait for things so that she gets used to it
alexa.robinson
16:21
2 1/2 year old with very challenging behaviour right now
Anita Patel-Gorasia
16:22
I have a nearly two year old
Kay Peat
16:25
Yes
Katie @ Mush
16:26
yes
Eunice E
16:27
yes
Lauren and Naomi
16:27
yes
Vicky Lewis
16:27
Yes
Anita Patel-Gorasia
16:28
yes
alexa.robinson
16:29
yes
Sakinas’ iPhone
16:29
yes
Caroline Lai
16:29
yes
Janelle
16:30
yes
Fati
16:31
yes
Helen
16:31
yes
Kat
16:32
yes
Zoe
16:33
yes
Chloe Williams
16:33
yes
Abby Hearn
16:34
yes
Caroline Duker
16:39
yes
Sian’s iPhone
16:44
two year old - very opinionated 🤣
Sadia Choudhury
16:59
yes and avoid time outs
Eunice E
17:41
yes
Katie @ Mush
17:42
Yes please!
Sian’s iPhone
17:46
👍🏻
Zoe
17:53
yes
Kat
17:53
absolutely
Eunice E
18:10
new
Katie @ Mush
18:11
new
Helen
18:12
new
Sian’s iPhone
18:14
new
Samantha
18:14
new
Zoe
18:14
new
Abby Hearn
18:15
new
Zoe
18:18
calm
Helen
18:18
calm
Chloe Williams
18:18
new & calm
Samantha
18:19
calm
Sadia Choudhury
18:19
yes new calm
Kay Peat
18:22
calm
Sian’s iPhone
18:22
calm
Samantha B
18:23
new
Abby Hearn
18:24
calm!! :)
Eunice E
18:25
calm
alexa.robinson
18:27
calm
Janelle
18:29
new
Janelle
18:32
calm
Caroline Duker
18:33
new and calm
Vicky Lewis
18:35
Both! 😊
Aisha
18:44
calm
Helen
18:54
joy
Caroline Lai
18:55
joy
Eunice E
18:56
joy
Zoe
18:59
joy
Lauren and Naomi
18:59
joy
Fati
18:59
joy
Sakinas’ iPhone
19:23
fed up with screaming
Sadia Choudhury
19:29
moaning about same thing everyday
Aisha
19:32
already sounds familiar!
Abby Hearn
19:36
stubborn nearly three year old!
Samantha B
19:39
fed of talking about the same thing
Chloe Williams
19:41
daughter hisses
Zoe
19:42
yes fed up with the aggression
Kat
19:57
desperate
Helen
20:04
my toddler seems to be spending too much time on the ‘naughty step’
Sadia Choudhury
20:29
shouting at me before I have even raised my voice cheeky 4yr old
Katie @ Mush
22:22
gorgeous
Sadia Choudhury
22:35
so cute
Vicky Lewis
23:46
I have a 15 month old and 19 weeks with number two, my daughter is generally very good, so her bad behaviour is naturally a shock and I'm lost.
Kay Peat
23:48
stressful!
Sadia Choudhury
24:41
yes advanced in her speaking and behaviour no always positively
Abby Hearn
24:54
everyday that is for me with the car 🙁
Vicky Lewis
26:34
Whoops, sent too soon! She tends to have tantrums over not getting to something or something not working as she wants. Or silly things like climbing on the stair gates, she'll ignore me completely until I physically remove her and she'll lie on the floor screaming and kicking. She kicks out while I'm changing her, hitting bump which worries me 😔
Kay Peat
27:52
That's a really powerful story, thanks
alexa.robinson
28:30
daily refusal to get dressed before nursery
Abby Hearn
28:37
being told
Abby Hearn
28:40
no
Charlotte
28:41
doesn’t like being told no
Caroline Lai
28:41
turning off the TV
Kat
28:45
doesnt want to tidy toys.
Vicky Lewis
28:47
Electronics! My daughter is obsessed and tantrums if she doesn't get it
Kay Peat
28:50
Anytime she gets a no
Helen
28:59
not eating his food and getting up from table all the time
Beth Reed
29:10
transitions - sitting down for a meal, getting dressed, going out etc
Sadia Choudhury
29:14
being around others almost putting on show
Fati
30:07
yes my son keep running away if I say nappy or clothes
Zoe
30:08
yes most day and night
Fati
31:09
cuddles or playing dinosaur
Sadia Choudhury
31:12
a cuddle
Katie @ Mush
31:46
Asking them how they are randomly -I find I only engage when I tell them off rather than saying well done for playing nicely!
Sakinas’ iPhone
37:32
quality of relationship
Katie @ Mush
38:19
trust ahd gratitude
Malwina
39:09
I feel like with tidying you can make it interactive for them and show them positive site of organising stuff
Caz
47:31
love that you say "helping your child cooperate" rather than 'making'
Sakinas’ iPhone
47:35
how long does general take for a child to respond to this positive approach
alexa.robinson
49:09
life changing!!
Fati S
49:18
a mircale!
Sadia Choudhury
49:34
peaceful makes u feel like doing more with them
Fati S
53:50
i feel like a bad mother always screaming and embrassed
alexa.robinson
53:51
very low confidence
Helen
53:54
not very confident
Sakinas’ iPhone
54:24
my daughter will scream and shout as soon as we enter the house. I imagine she must be tired from the reception class
Anita Patel-Gorasia
55:39
my son has started screaming when we’re out shopping or when there are people around at home
christine
55:45
at what age do you start implementing this? is under 6 months too early to practice?
Camilla McGill
56:59
WWW.MYPARENTINGSOLUTIONS.COM/CHALLENGING BEHAVIOUR
Sakinas’ iPhone
57:06
be composed at the very begging
Sakinas’ iPhone
57:29
they will scream more 🙈
Sadia Choudhury
57:32
everyone is calm and enjoying the moment
christine
57:34
to recognise crib resistance as an emotion response
Fati S
57:44
be calmer and my child will be having less tantrum more excite to go shopping or leaving softplay
Kay Peat
58:07
Less demanding when out with other people
Fati S
58:19
a life changing
Caz
58:30
how do you handle leaving places or stopping an activity?
christine
58:30
have a close emotional connection even when my child is misvehaving
Sakinas’ iPhone
58:47
think about my behaviour
Eunice E
58:50
engage in her play and ask questions and not command her
Kay Peat
58:51
the get connected advice
Fati S
58:52
respect their feelings
Sadia Choudhury
59:25
I learnt that children's behaviour is actually reflected from me
Sadia Choudhury
59:29
yep katie
christine
59:38
most valuable: remembering that i am not helpless as a parent to support my child in their emotions and behaviour
Helen
59:53
to stop with threats and try and new approach
Kat
01:01:23
Please can I ask what to do if I ask questions but the child doesnt respond or is not able to reply?
Sadia Choudhury
01:02:31
how do you deal with a 8 yr old who lashes out at younger sibling for invading her space?
Anita Patel-Gorasia
01:02:45
please can I ask what to do when they start screaming randomly? Any more tips pre-terrible twos please?
christine
01:04:24
from what age can you implement this?
Fati S
01:05:23
how to help a toddler to be more patience
Helen
01:05:26
You mentioned earlier that using ‘naughty step’ isn’t good for managing behaviour? I do feel it doesn’t work but just gives me a break…
Zoe
01:06:18
how can I stop my 19 month old from picking up and throwing Chiara and stalls at me when I have said they can't do something or can't have something for example a glass or my phone.
Kay Peat
01:08:00
Thank you
Helen
01:08:05
thank you
Eunice E
01:08:09
thanks
Aisha
01:08:14
thank you so much!
Kat
01:08:15
thank you
Fati S
01:08:18
thank you so much this will help me a lot!
Anita Patel-Gorasia
01:08:19
thank you so much
Zoe
01:08:20
thank you
Samantha
01:08:30
Thank you!
Rhoda Quaye
01:08:31
thank you. very informative!
christine
01:08:33
that was really enjoyable, thanks!
Laura Cotton
01:08:34
thank u
Caroline Duker
01:08:53
thank you
Caz
01:09:24
how to explain they can't do something or it is dangerous?
christine
01:09:25
any advice for crib resistance?
Kat
01:09:33
any ideas about behaving with pets?
Sian’s iPhone
01:10:04
is it ok to “give in” on small things - I do quite a lot 😏 but worry that I’m not setting boundaries
Aisha
01:10:22
how to stop threats?
Sian’s iPhone
01:11:25
thank you
Camilla McGill
01:11:51
www.myparentingsolutions.com/challengingbehaviour
Debs
01:12:21
thank you that was really informative